THEORY No. 1
SINGLE women refuse to fall in love or fall in love with great difficulty, simply because they have suffered enough!
Example: Following a tumultuous love and a very nasty break up, and after you have pampered him, stood by him, and helped him in any way you can think of (i.e. you have brought him to a point where you can stand him and you are ready for the big step!), and after you have swallowed all your pride the moment he breaks up with you�you suddenly hear he is getting MARRIED!
Reaction of a woman that has not decided to remain SINGLE: You cry your heart out because you were the one to go through hell to make him what he is now, another woman will be the one to enjoy all the fruits of your effort! You get depressed because you know that now you must find someone else whom, without any doubt, you will have to go through the same or worse things.
Reaction of a woman that has decided to remain SINGLE: You arrive at the wedding uninvited and during the time when you are ready to congratulate the bride and the groom you ignore the groom and whisper to the bride�s ear how lucky she is for having such a great man!
THEORY No. 2
SINGLE women know exactly what they want and that is why they almost never find it!
Example: The ideal man.
What a woman that has not decided to remain SINGLE is looking for: A nice, faithful husband and a happy family.
What a woman that has decided to remain SINGLE is looking for: A nice, faithful, well educated, wealthy, smart, with a sense of humor, attractive and independent man that will not pressure her, will not tell her what she should and what she should not do, will not stand in the way of her career, will help with housework, will romantically surprise her, will stand by her when she does not feel so well, will tolerate her nerves, will not feel frustrated in case she is smarter, better good looking, with higher education or more successful than he is �i.e. The SINGLE woman is looking for the man that does NOT exist!!! (this is why she has decided to remain SINGLE)!
To Be Continued�
Note: The above text is based solely on the SINGLE woman writer�s personal experience.
Katerina Kourtessi
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